Time Flies

Doesn't it, though? The kids and I moved to our new digs a year ago. Technically, thirteen months ago. Believe me, I've had a hard time adjusting, which is funny because I thought I'd take to it like a duck to water, and that my kids would be the ones with the difficulty adjusting. Who knew they'd take to it like ducks to water? I guess I knew that. It is, after all, how I've brought them up - to roll with the punches, so to speak. And roll they did! They used those so-called "punches" (which weren't really punches at all) to their advantage. They've blossomed into pretty fascinating people.

Kailey is driving. On a permit, mind you, but driving. I have new grey hairs to prove it. Tim is now taller than Kailey (she's 5'2"). Kenzie is nearly as tall as Kailey. Needless to say, Kailey feels cheated in the height department. Small, but mighty, I tell her. She's an oboe whiz. Seriously. And flute and saxophone, too. That girl's talent will earn her college scholarships in music. Thank goodness that's what she wants to do. Her wit is sharper than ever, and I love talking to her. Tim will be thirteen at the beginning of August. He's up to my nose now. He's a trumpet whiz. Unfortunately, trumpet-whiz-types are pretty much a dime a dozen, so scholarships are harder to come by. He's seriously contemplating keeping the trumpet as his jazz and marching bands instrument, and learning the bassoon for the scholarship money. Only in 7th grade, he's going to start lessons this fall for trumpet with a professional trumpet instructor. I'm pretty pleased about that. Kenzie begins her French horn trek this fall. A good French horn player can get good scholarship money as well. (Parents, have you noticed a theme here? If your kid has any musical inclination AT ALL, and you are trying to figure out how to get enough dough for tuition, seriously consider having them play an instrument. I'm pinning down all the details, so by the time I get Kailey in college, I should be an expert). Anyway, Kenzie is my shadow, and I can see in her the potential to be and do many things. I like how her world, and Kailey and Tim's worlds, are blank pages, waiting to be filled. It's my job to guide them as best I can.

They all made friends relatively quickly after our move. I credit getting involved in church immediately. If you ever find yourself uprooting from all you've known and settling down in a new place, that's the way to start... getting involved in a church family. All three kids have hit their stride, and I am so glad for that. It's a blessing.

I'm still working on my stride. I keep thinking of the old adage, "You can't teach an old dog new tricks." I'm not sure I quite buy that, but there is some truth to it. If you're going to try it, then I recommend the following:

1) Have someone there who will hold you up when you just can't do it on your own. There will be days like that, but they'll pass more quickly with a hand-holder.

2) Pray. A lot. When everything around you changes, there is one aspect that remains constant, and that's the Lord. He's always there, always knows what to do, and never lets you down. And He waits on you to wise up and seek Him out. I've learned to seek Him out first, then somehow my hand-holder, Ron, is there giving me the support I need.

3) Get involved in church, as I mentioned above. It truly is the best way to meet the kind of people who will be beneficial in your spiritual walk, and who will be there when you need them.

4) Don't wait on potential friends to seek you out. Seek them out! Be outgoing! No one has to know you're shy, and it's a good way to overcome shyness. Believe it or not, I'm shy. Sure, I'm loud, boisterous, funny, life of the party, etc., but I do not make friends easily. I'm still working on that. When asked to go to dinner or whatever with friends, Ron usually has to kick my bootie out the door. Not because I don't necessarily want to go, but because I tend to be a dyed-in-the-wool homebody.

5) Keep in touch with friends who are far away. This is hard to do most of the time because everyone is so busy with kids and work and church and life. It takes a lot of effort, and I'm probably pretty bad about it. Just because my friends don't always hear from me, doesn't mean I'm not thinking of or praying for them.

6) Keep a blog. Easier said than done. When was my last post? I don't remember, and would have to look, but I think it was in the winter, and it was a recipe I posted. I often think of topics I'd like to blog about, then forget about them when I finally have time to blog. I should keep a list somewhere.

7) Be thankful for wherever you are, and whatever God has you doing, even if it's not a whole lot. Right now, I'm not doing a whole lot because most of my time is spent on kids' stuff and then work (during the school year). Church praise team is my thing, and I cherish the times I'm scheduled. For now, I think that's all God wants me doing while I'm still settling in (I also like to think of it as getting my sea legs).

Speaking of sea legs, just got back from our honeymoon. I'll blog about that later, after I've had the chance to upload pictures and contemplate all I thought about while my toes were in the sand and surf, with my best friend by my side. Those are my musings for today. Perhaps I'll come up with some interesting stuff later, but that's all I got for now.

New Recipe (for me)

Those who know me well, know I love trying new recipes. I love sharing the new recipes when I think they're worth everyone trying, so here goes. This is not the original recipe, as I had to tweak it to work for my 6-person family. You will have leftovers, more than likely.

Meatball Stew (for the Crock Pot)

4 medium potatoes, peeled and cut into 1/2-inch cubes

1 package (16 ounces) fresh baby carrots, cut up

1 large onion, chopped

3 celery ribs, sliced

1 package (32 ounces) frozen fully cooked meatballs (homestyle or original, not Italian)

1 can (10-3/4 ounces) condensed tomato soup, undiluted

2 packages brown gravy mix, prepared as directed and combined

1 cup water

1 envelope onion soup mix

Place the potatoes, carrots, onion, celery and meatballs in a crock pot. Mix remaining ingredients in a bowl, and pour over meatball mixture. Cover and cook on low for 9-10 hours or until the vegetables are done.

Not many in my family like celery, so I left that out. Green beans would also be good in this stew. Upon eating the stew, Ron and I agreed that green pepper chunks would be excellent in this recipe, so I'll give that a try next time. I bought some fancy bread at Panera to go with the stew, and that was just perfect. If you try it, let me know how you liked it!

Second Time Around

It's been quite a while since I last blogged. I've been rather. . . . busy. My friend, Alana, suggested that I should start blogging again, and that I'd have a lot to blog about considering all the events in the last year.

A year ago on New Year's Eve, Ron and I were married. 'Twas wonderful, and still is. Of course, true married life didn't really kick in until the kids and I moved to JC six months after the wedding. Here we are, nearly seven months after moving, and I can honestly say, married life is grand. Oh, don't get me wrong, it's not all sunshine and roses (we do still own the house in Branson - it's not sold). We have four children, all busy with their activities, our jobs, church, unpacking boxes (yes, still). Then there's the whole getting used to living with each other. For years, I've been accustomed to being the sole adult in a house with three children. Now, I've got back up, and four wonderful blessings running around.

I'd forgotten what it was like to have someone to back me up. Someone to bolster me when I wasn't quite sure what to do next. Someone who loves me in spite of what I look like when I awake (it's not always pretty, especially when I'm sick with a cold). He's very gracious and kind, and he still makes me giggle and blush. Nice to know I can still do that at nearly 43 years of age. Anyway, I can't tell you what it means to me to finally have a traditional family again. I can't tell you the difference it's made in my children. They've always been good, but now they're beyond good. They're relaxed. I'm not sure if that makes sense to anyone but me.

Something else about the second time around: I know what to expect in marriage, and what my role is. I don't think anyone really clearly outlines that for the bride and groom who are brand new to marriage. It's a serious thing, and I don't think people take marriage all that seriously any more (just look at the tabloids). I'm so glad that Ron and I take it seriously. We've both had marriages fail, so we have a greater appreciation and reverence for our marriage. There's no taking the marriage or our spouse for granted this time around because we both know how fragile things can get. We both know the nurturing that has to be done so that the marriage will thrive and prosper. I'm so very thankful for him, every single day. Thankful for the God-fearing man that he is; a man whose heart was so loving and big that he could love three children who aren't his biologically, but whom he treats as if they are; a man who overlooks my faults and sees me as God sees me, and loves me in spite of myself.

So things are transitioning well. A huge burden will be lifted from both our shoulders once the Branson house sells, and then I'll feel like we can really get on with things. It's that one dark cloud on an otherwise sunshiny day, but like all clouds, they do pass on by. Luckily, it's just a cloud and not a storm, although if it were a storm, I have quite the wonderful fella with whom to weather it.